Info

Blending The Family with Tommy Maloney

Welcome to "Blending the Family," the ultimate podcast dedicated to guiding you through the intricate journey of building and nurturing a blended family. Hosted by Tommy Maloney, a passion for fostering healthy relationships, this podcast is your go-to resource for insights, advice, and heartwarming stories that address the unique dynamics of blended families. From the complexities of dating with kids after divorce to the heartwarming stories of successful blending and from tackling the challenges of co-parenting to preparing for the big day – marriage, this podcast covers it all. We will discuss good wines for that first date or your monthly budget with your significant other. Each episode delves into the real-life experiences, struggles, and triumphs of individuals who have embarked on the path of blending families. "Blending the Family" brings you candid conversations with experts in family dynamics, parenting, and relationship counseling. Our goal is to provide actionable tips, relatable anecdotes, and proven strategies to help you navigate the challenges and seize the opportunities of forming a blended family. Whether you're a bonus parent, a biological parent, or a couple contemplating the beautiful journey of blending your lives, this podcast is your trusted companion. We're here to help you create a harmonious and loving family environment filled with understanding, communication, and respect. Tune in regularly for insightful discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories that will inspire and equip you with the tools to overcome obstacles and build lasting connections. "Blending the Family" is available on [platform] and releases new episodes on Fridays at 8 AM Eastern Time. Subscribe now to embark on a transformative journey that celebrates the joys and navigates the complexities of blended family life. You can contact me at: tommy@blendingthefamily.com
RSS Feed Subscribe in Apple Podcasts
2023
September
August
January


2022
September
August
June
May
April
March
February
January


2021
December
November
October
September
August
July
June
May
April
March
February
January


2020
December
November
October
September
July
June
May
April
March
February
January


2019
December
November
October
July
June
May
April
March
February
January


2018
December
October
September
June
May
April
March
February
January


2017
December
October
September
August
July
June
May
April


2016
June
February
January


2015
September
August
May
April
March
February
January


All Episodes
Archives
Now displaying: Page 1

Welcome to the podcast BLENDING THE FAMILY

BlendingTheFamily.com

Mar 26, 2021

In this episode, I am once again joined by Terry Gaspard (she was on episode 28) to talk about her brilliant new book "the Re-marriage manual: How to Make Everything Work Better the Second Time Around". 

What I learned from the book:

1. I need to do a better job of telling my wife Ann, I love her more often.

2. Let Ann know more things she has done in a positive way (the podcast will explain better).

3. The six-second kiss

4. The name Tommy was popular.

5. I WAS RIGHT!! 

As promised the "Six Strategies for Increasing Communication and Creating Loving Intimacy:

1. Be sure you first understand, and then seek to be understood.

2.Freely Communicate your admiration and fondness for your partner.

3. Catch your partner doing something "right" and compliment them for it (this was an eye-opener for me).

4. Practice offering mutual gratitude on a regular basis.

5. Turn toward your partner.

6. Remind yourself of your partner's positive qualities and express your positive feelings out loud several times each day.

Who is Terry?

Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW

I am a licensed therapist, college instructor, and non-fiction author, specializing in divorce, marriage, children, and relationships. I am a regular contributor to The Gottman Relationship Blog, Patheos.com, marriage.com, Huffington Post, TheGoodMenProject.com, DivorcedMoms.com, and DivorceMagazine.com.

My book, Daughters of Divorce: Overcome the Legacy of Your Parents’ Breakup and Enjoy a Happy, Long-Lasting Relationship, was co-authored with my daughter Tracy and published by Sourcebooks in 2016. As a therapist, I am interested in helping people heal from the pain they experience related to divorce and other challenges and losses. My interest in the lives of women who grew up in divorced families began with my own experience. My passion for this topic grew as my clinical practice included many daughters of divorce and I experienced divorce. When I wrote Daughters of Divorce, I supplemented my clinical and personal experience by interviewing more than 300 hundred women raised in divorced families.

My initial research study in 1995 included 198 women and I discovered that the loss of access to both parents was associated with low-self-esteem in daughters of divorce. Following that, I studied a larger, diverse sample of over 300 adults and examined issues such as interpersonal relationships, trust, family climate, and self-esteem. Both studies were published in the Journal of Divorce and Remarriage. My book, Daughters of Divorce, discusses findings from my research and offers poignant stories from the women I interviewed about their quest for fulfilling relationships that endure the test of time.

My new book, The Remarriage Manual: How to Make Everything Work Better the Second Time Around, will be published by Sounds True in February of 2020. It provides powerful real-life stories, action steps, and strategies for the millions of couples who are taking a chance on love in a second (or third) marriage. Grounded in 100 in-depth interviews of remarried people, The Remarriage Manual gives readers a clear road map to better relationship skills so they can build the happy, long-lasting marriages they desire.

For more information about Terry: 

https://movingpastdivorce.com/women-of-divorce/

 

PRE-ORDER: My Dads Advice At 5:04 AM
 
 
PRE-ORDER: My Dads Advice At 5:04 AM

Tommy Maloney is the Executive producer and host of the podcast Blending The Family, where you can find on Apple Podcasts, Iheart Radio, Spotify, and Stitcher Radio. 

 

Tommy has spoken at TEDx, Ignite Fort Collins, and Keynote Speaker at Everything Dad Convention. He even has won speaking awards through Toastmasters International.

 

 The author of the book "25 Tips For Divorced Dads." "Why not you, Why Not Me" and His new book, "My Dad's Advice At 5:04 AM" are coming out in 2021. He has written for magazines: The Good Men Project, Modern Gladiator, and Nurture Magazine. Plus, he has been a guest writer.

 

Tommy enjoys a good red blend while writing or hiding from the family. A dad to Betsy, Becca, Connor, and Duke (RIP), Otis. A husband to Ann. 

Podcast music by Twisterium / freebackgroundtracks.net

Contact him at

 Tommy@BlendingTheFamily.com

 

TEDx Talk: https://youtu.be/azG2K47iz4Q

 

 Blog: http://blendingthefamily.com/blog/

 

 Podcast: http://blendingthefamily.libsyn.com/

 

 Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tommy-maloney/id958223196?mt=2

 

 Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/tommy-maloney/blending-the-family

 

 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thetommymaloney

 

 The Good Men Project: https://goodmenproject.com/author/tommy-maloney/

 

Medium: https://medium.com/@thetommymaloney

Calendly: calendly.com/thomasdmaloneyjr

0 Comments
Adding comments is not available at this time.